Beware: Friendly Advice you Give Turns Into a Weapon That Destroy Relationships

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Although most of these words are clearly trustworthy and are words that are meant to be helpful. Sadly, they’re not either of those things. Actually, these words might be interpreted as dismissive or unconcerned. When your partner is already sensing a period of doubt, the absence of support from you will lead them to even question your feelings for them.

When an individual gets more intimate with someone, they’re more willful to share their inner more thoughts with them. They won’t just share how they feel with anyone because it’s only this special someone that they will trust to keep it safe.

So when your partner is sharing their problems with you, they’re making themselves vulnerable. once they start discussing important things like “how they had a busy day at work, how their boss keeps making them overwork at the office,” or “how they want your advice or opinion on family-related issues, they’re not trying to find an answer. they only want to open up to someone who will listen and be able to get the picture.

Naturally, when someone shares with you about their bad moods, it’s with the utmost concern for a person to require to assist out, especially a person that you simply hold dear to your heart. By giving assist and support, you’re by no means trying to be offensive.

You may say things like “don’t worry too much about things like that,” or “I will always be here to help you handle things,” or “never feel lonely I am because I will also be here for you”

Mostly a lot of these kinds of issues don’t require an answer on your part. They’re not asking you for one. And offering words like, “don’t worry about it,” to console them is rude and unconcerned. this is often offering unnecessary advice when your suggestion was never asked for to start with.

You are well-intended advice could make them feel undermined, which can make them feel even worse because they’re not receiving the support they want. This misleads them to think that you simply don’t care about what they’re going through, and you don’t attempt to get them.

People need advice but at other times all that they actually need is for you to concentrate and show them that you will always there.

When you are someone’s helper, you offer support simply just by being there. The helper doesn’t always give advice. The helper creates a confront to feel loved and cared for until you are stronger to handle things. 

If there’s no request to offer advice, don’t. the likelihood is that your partner doesn’t actually need it. You might be the only one they confide in, and if they need advice they will surely ask for it. Especially if you’re helpful.

Sometimes loving advice that you honestly suggest with noble intentions is often received negatively, In the end making things not so good. Active listening and simply being there for your partner are some of the basic things you can do.

Listen to them attentively, be careful whatever you say to console them, give advice if necessary and allow them to process through their issues by talking it through, Just simply letting it out might make them feel better.

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Kwaku Nimako

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